Letting Go

Life has it's own beautiful moments and saddening times. It varies even more whenever you meet new people. New friends may come along in our journey and some might leave us the other day. We couldn't fight fate, so we just have to let go sometimes. Yes, it's difficult when sometimes we had just to let somethings or someone go on with their journey leaving us behind. But, do we really know what letting go really means? To each and everyone of us, letting go differs within what our mind and heart describes each every little detail of the process letting go itself. I'm myself was a bit blurred and vagued by the terms of letting go. So, intrigued by it, I went to search for it and no more better to start than into the depths of Google, (yeah, "depths" of Google O_o) . I've found the site and it tells different terms of letting go and one of them might applied to you.

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands, but in God's.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most possible out of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, fuss, or argue; but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to live for today and grow for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and to love more.

~ Author Unknown ~


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